Author and Activist Instills Message of Courage, Determination and the Power of Love

In spite of this life-altering injury, Roy was determined to live a life of meaning and purpose, and on Monday, December 9, the author, activist and motivational speaker shared with upper school students some of the wisdom he has gained in the 24 years since his accident.  

 

During his talk, Roy shared his passion for hockey and how hard he worked during his childhood to pursue his dream to play for collegiate, professional and Olympic teams. His athletic future looked bright; but his goals changed in an instant. “That’s the challenge that chose me,” Roy said to the audience. “It’s what we do in the face of those challenges that defines who we are.”

 

August Peterson ’20, who learned Roy’s story while playing on a hockey team in sixth grade, initiated his visit to the School. “That aspect of challenges choosing people, instead of people choosing challenges,” was particularly impactful, Peterson said. “It was a powerful message,” he added. 

Roy encouraged students to work toward achieving their own goals by “desiring to see how good you can be at whatever it is you choose” and “knowing that you did try your best.” Beyond this, though, he reminded the audience about the importance of one’s personal values. “The values that made me successful before my accident were the values that were going to make me successful after.” He asked students to respect themselves and others, listen to their own voice in difficult or challenging situations, and share love with those they care about.